i asked a friend for advice on relationships. here it is:
So, the thing about relationships is, each and every one is totally unique. A relationship is a reaction between two elements, you and the other. From your perspective, you are the only constant…but in reality even you change, with experience. So one of the most important things is to realize that your new relationship doesn’t have to look like anybody else’s relationship, nor like any relationship you’ve ever had before.